"It's Complicated"

I am beyond sick of the phrase "it's complicated" when it comes to a relationship! That phrase is the worst one used and more frequently than ever. It irritates me when a man uses that as a pass on his commitment to do dirt. When I ask you if you have a girlfriend, DON'T tell me "it's complicated" thinking that it's gonna get you in where you think you can fit it. It's black and white........yes or no! Don't tell me "it's complicated because it's "rocky".........what in the heck is that supposed to mean. When it's "rocky" in your relationship saying "it's complicated" doesn't give you a free pass to go be unfaithful and feel justified in doing so. If your relationship is so "rocky" then END IT! I've been in serious relationships and I've been through the "rocky" and "complicated" times but I NEVER used that as an excuse to go do as I please and feel justified by my triflin' actions and I surely didn't let that be the excuse for my boyfriend at the time. You either try to work out the "rocky" and "complicated" times in hopes to make your relationship last OR you make a decision to be done with it and move on because it clearly isn't working. Why put your "other half" through it just because YOU can't or don't want to deal with it? Just because your other half may not know for fact that you are being unfaithful does not mean that she isn't being torchered by the thoughts day in a day out that you probably are bein' unfaithful because all the signs point to it. It's scandalous, period the end. It just baffles me how some of you men think you're slick leavin' out pertinent information when engaging in conversation with another woman. And the audasity that you have to step to me while you got a whole girlfriend and possibly involve me whether you believe it to be that or not. Let me tell you something........when you have a girlfriend and you venture out to holla at me then you ARE involving me. We may not be getting serious or even looking to get into a relationship but if your girlfriend were to find out and I was not knowledgeable of her I guarantee in this world today that BOTH you and I would get the heat for it and IF your girlfriend is freakin' crazy then YOU are comprimising peace in MY life because she could do harmful things to me because she would perceive me as a scandalous broad because I'm hollerin' at you even if I didn't know. KEEP IT REAL DANG IT and let ME decide if I want to be a scandalous broad, which you will clearly see I AM NOT. So don't tell me once I've figured you out that "you aren't trying to get me involved" because every single person that comes into your life is an involvment in some form or fashion to you and possibly to your already present situations. I am proud to say I am a thinker. I'm proud to say that I am a question asker and not just some simple minded broad that chooses to be ignorant because you look like a good time. If you can't handle your COMMITMENT then spare your girlfriend the agony and be single. Go have your fun but don't do it at the expense of your girlfriends feelings and emotions because it is men like you that cause women like me to have so much pain in our hearts because of your lack of commitment and the dirt you decided to pleasure yourself with while I'M BEING FAITHFUL TO YOU. Miss me with it because I am NOT the one.