Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Make love to my mind.
He will make love to my mind.......rejuvenate my soul.....take notice to the depth inside.....as it is what makes me whole. I am more than surface beauty.........my true beauty lies within...........from my soul to yours.........a beautiful adventure can begin. Look deep into my eyes........tell me what you see.......a continuing growth of WOMAN is what you'll see in me. Being aroused by my uniqueness.........finding glee in my happiness.......being motivated by my success.........taking comfort in my security and warmth.........I shall settle for nothing less. He will be strong in mind, body, and soul........he will have ambition and the want to grow.......he will exude the potential for passion and love............he will not be scared to express himself........he will think with every step taken..........he will embrace what CAN BE...........he will possess these characteristics if he's meant to be with an extraordinary woman like me. My life is a puzzle wanting and waiting for your piece to complete it. So remember me, Dear when you embark on the journey of love.......recognize the significance of what is right in front of you and that with you is where I belong. We will discover phenomenal things that will feel endless along the way.......as we enjoy the beautiful odyssey that life takes us along. So make love to my mind..........rejuvenate my soul.........I have now noticed your depth inside......and it is you that makes me whole.
Sunday, October 19, 2008
A TRUE friend..........
Category: Friends
Along the path of life we meet many wonderful people. Some of those wonderful people make their ways into our hearts to be friends. To have a real and TRUE friend is one of the most cherished blessings that I thank God for. I don't know what I would have done if my true friends wouldn't have been here for me all of my years. They have been there through my errors, my pain, my tears, my laughter, my happiness, my joy, and my continuing growth and in turn I do everything in my power to reciprocate the same love and loyalty that they have given to me. It can be very hard to find friends that are loyal and won't backstab and do things to hurt you. Through friendships you will go through a series of trials and tribulations and to me that is either the make or break of friendships. If you can get through the trials and tribulations, recognizing your errors and come out LEARNING from the mistakes that may have taken place and either asking for forgiveness or being the one to forgive, the friendship can become closer and stronger. If you however have trials and tribulations and the errors aren't recognized and the mistakes or acts are repeated whether forgiven previously or not, then a friendship is more than likely going to whither away and both parties left in pain whether either party wants to admit it or not. I don't believe friendships are meant to be hard. I don't believe that either party in a friendship is intended to do MORE work than the other. I believe it is equal playing ground and the same amount of love, devotion, loyalty, support, and work should be put into it in order for it to prosper. I often evaluate the friendships in my life and I think it is important to do so. I think it is healthy for friends to get things off of their chest to the other in an appropriate manner, but once that is done you CANNOT repeatedly keep bringing it up and makin' the other feel bad because YOU have chosen not to get over it and move past it. If you feel something is going wrong with a friendship of yours, instead of pointing the finger at the other person, take a step back and check yourself to make sure that you are not in the wrong. It is SO much easier to point a finger when you're in the wrong but it is mature and the right thing to do to accept and own up to things that were your fault as well. If you always sit and point the finger and never accept responsibility of your actions then you will never grow and your friendships will never prosper. A friendship should never end and one of the parties feel relieved that they don't have to deal with you anymore because if that is the case than it wasn't a true friendship in the first place. I have found through evaluations past and present that if a friendship leaves you with a negative vibe, confused, feelin' down, sad, angry more than it does leaving you happy, uplifted, supported, and positive than it is not a TRUE friend on the other end. A TRUE friend will be there through the good AND the bad. A TRUE friend will not hold things over your head constantly. A TRUE friend will not always agree with every decision you make in your life BUT will accept YOU for YOU and will BE THERE regardless. Moral of this blog........TRUE friends are hard to find so make sure you're being one and when you are a TRUE friend make sure it is being reciprocated.
Along the path of life we meet many wonderful people. Some of those wonderful people make their ways into our hearts to be friends. To have a real and TRUE friend is one of the most cherished blessings that I thank God for. I don't know what I would have done if my true friends wouldn't have been here for me all of my years. They have been there through my errors, my pain, my tears, my laughter, my happiness, my joy, and my continuing growth and in turn I do everything in my power to reciprocate the same love and loyalty that they have given to me. It can be very hard to find friends that are loyal and won't backstab and do things to hurt you. Through friendships you will go through a series of trials and tribulations and to me that is either the make or break of friendships. If you can get through the trials and tribulations, recognizing your errors and come out LEARNING from the mistakes that may have taken place and either asking for forgiveness or being the one to forgive, the friendship can become closer and stronger. If you however have trials and tribulations and the errors aren't recognized and the mistakes or acts are repeated whether forgiven previously or not, then a friendship is more than likely going to whither away and both parties left in pain whether either party wants to admit it or not. I don't believe friendships are meant to be hard. I don't believe that either party in a friendship is intended to do MORE work than the other. I believe it is equal playing ground and the same amount of love, devotion, loyalty, support, and work should be put into it in order for it to prosper. I often evaluate the friendships in my life and I think it is important to do so. I think it is healthy for friends to get things off of their chest to the other in an appropriate manner, but once that is done you CANNOT repeatedly keep bringing it up and makin' the other feel bad because YOU have chosen not to get over it and move past it. If you feel something is going wrong with a friendship of yours, instead of pointing the finger at the other person, take a step back and check yourself to make sure that you are not in the wrong. It is SO much easier to point a finger when you're in the wrong but it is mature and the right thing to do to accept and own up to things that were your fault as well. If you always sit and point the finger and never accept responsibility of your actions then you will never grow and your friendships will never prosper. A friendship should never end and one of the parties feel relieved that they don't have to deal with you anymore because if that is the case than it wasn't a true friendship in the first place. I have found through evaluations past and present that if a friendship leaves you with a negative vibe, confused, feelin' down, sad, angry more than it does leaving you happy, uplifted, supported, and positive than it is not a TRUE friend on the other end. A TRUE friend will be there through the good AND the bad. A TRUE friend will not hold things over your head constantly. A TRUE friend will not always agree with every decision you make in your life BUT will accept YOU for YOU and will BE THERE regardless. Moral of this blog........TRUE friends are hard to find so make sure you're being one and when you are a TRUE friend make sure it is being reciprocated.
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