Thursday, June 8, 2006

A lesson learned from a different perspective.

Category: Life


There is usually a lesson learned from another's perspective of a situation. The messed up thing is usually the lesson learned isn't always the kindest. You will never really know what people think about something you might say or do. I try to keep in mind that my words or actions could be offensive to another but as we all sometimes go on just a whim of thought. Our judgment is impaired not thinkin' of somebody else's perspective. I'm tryin' to learn that assumptions don't get you anywhere most of the time. In the words of the Great Stingy when you assume most of the time both parties look like an ass. So true. What is the point of this thought you may ask. Just remember what you say and what you do can be offensive to another and can make them react in a angry manor before seein' your outlook on the situation. Then you may react in an inappropriate manor because when somebody comes at you so negative its hard to just brush that off and learn. Retaliation is not always the anwer.

Sunday, June 4, 2006

When you don't think anyone can relate.

Category: Friends

Just when you don't think anybody else in your life can relate to a certain situation in your life........your proven wrong. That is why I love my friends! When it comes to finances, kids, boyfriends, family, or anything for that matter if you take the time to really sit down and converse with your FOR REAL homies you will find out your situation may be the same thing they're goin' through. Then you find out your unfortunate situation became a little easier because you had your friend to relate with and get their insight on how they are dealin' with it. Its like you just knew you were on the same page of the same book in that time in your life.