I am a TAURUS.....see how I am defined. Pretty daggon accurately.

Category: Life

I am a TAURUS, your needs in love are largely determined by the pleasing of your senses। The first of the earth signs, Taurus is very physical। You are sensually inclined--not sensation-oriented like Aries, but rather keenly tuned in to the world of the physical five senses. (The sixth sense belongs to the Water signs!) To understand the Venusian Taurus nature, it is helpful to think of three "S" words that Taurus values: sensuality, stability, and satisfaction. You are somewhat conventional in matters of the heart, with a strong sense of commitment and purpose. You are not romantic in a frilly or dreamy way, yet you certainly have the sense of the romantic when it comes to honoring others and surrounding partnerships in simple luxuries. You are practical, and relationships are taken seriously. This does not necessarily mean that you are incapable of having one-night-stands or the like, but a partnership means a lot to you and you don't take your responsibilities lightly. You have a strong, constant love nature, and you offer loved ones much comfort in your stability. You seek out security through partnership. You tend to hold on to partnerships, and you place basic security needs over emotional or spiritual needs. As a result, others may see you as a rock, or they can easily get frustrated that you overlook the nuances of the relationship, depending on the audience.
Your tastes are well-developed, and you prefer to surround yourself with things that feel luxurious and comfortable, yet simple. Your taste in home decor reflects your own love nature! Satisfaction is important to you, and your lover's physical presence is demanded. Unless Venus is strongly aspected to Neptune, for example, you are very much concerned with all that is physical, often completely ignoring the spiritual needs of your partner and relationship. You are persevering and you are not afraid to wait if you know you are likely to get your prize! Changes make you unsettled, and you react to any sudden changes in the course of your relationship by digging in your heels.

Most all lies will be revealed with time......

Category: Friends

I don't know why people continue to think that they can lie straight to your face and think because they THINK they are sneaky that their triflin' ways will not be found out by the one they have betrayed or hurt. Most all lies WILL be revealed with time and don't you DARE try to blame your actions on "bein' drunk"......UNACCEPTABLE and UNBELIEVABLE. IF the friendship that they have with you is important to them at all, you'd think once a "friend" has stepped on your toes or hurt you before that they would do everything in their power to make sure that they wouldn't do anything to mess up that bond up again. And for a friend to have the audasity to step to you with "concern" to make sure their actions would not yet hurt you again knowing that they already have done what they are talkin' about may happen in the FUTURE, is even lower. Did you do it because it made your conscious feel better???? Like I've said once before I do NOT take the words "I love you" lightly, I cherish REAL friendships deeply, and I just want YOU to know that you have been found out AGAIN and for YOU to look me in my face like you haven't yet again hurt me and act like everything is hunky dory because "I don't know about your actions" is RIDICULOUS! YOU ain't sneaky, I know a LOT of people that actually DO CARE ABOUT ME and the grape vine flows through my ears OFTEN so I don't know why you keep trying! Such disappointment. Was he worth it?!

Different perspective on dating and chances taken

Category: Romance and Relationships

So I've been dating this guy for about 3 months now and everything has been truly wonderful. Though it is the learning process and things are on a slow pace, I have definitely developed feelings and a slow attachment to this GOOD MAN. In the past week another "good" MAN comes into the picture and shows interest and I was goin' back and forth about whether or not it is fair to date more than one guy at a time and if I should pursue this interest. It is in fact dating and so in my experience and mind there was nothing wrong with dating more then one guy but when it came down to it for me to feel as uncomfortable as I did during a whole date because I kept thinkin' to myself I wonder if the other guy would be offended and why do I feel so wrong. I wasn't havin' a bad time with this other "good" man but my discomfort took away from the experience and focus I should have dedicated to that date. I got to hear a different perspective on the situation of dating from the "new" guy and the "old" guy that they were not really comfortable with me talkin' to another because it is in some way unfair and it technically takes away from the total dating experience with one because if your talkin' to more than one man then you will not allow and cannot have your WHOLE focus on just one guy at that time, you would have to almost split your focus. It's not like I was purposely goin' out and lookin' for another to date because I've been perfectly content with dating this one guy for the past months but this other guy came along and I kept asking myself should I pass up the opportunity to date two "good" men as it is a RARE thing around here to find "good men"? The answer I came up with was YES because of the whole dating experience. It is already hard for me to put my feelings into something totally due to past hurt and my heart being guarded but having other options is not goin' to ease that past pain by makin' sure I always have more then one option because I'm comforted that I will always have someone and is not fair if you really think about it to any of the parties involved. I learned something this weekend through this experience and it is that I guess sometimes you gotta set aside your selfishness because of pain and take a chance. I cannot forsee the future and I don't know that the guy I've been dating is "the one", even though he is obviously an excellent prospect and MAN, but if he happens to be "the one" would I ever know if I decided to not focus on him and miss signs or whatever? As much as I think to myself that everybody comes into your life for a reason I've got to take a risk and pump the brakes on other "options" that I may come in contact with. I'm gettin' to old to juggle and refuse to play games. I don't think I was the only one that learned a lil somethin' this weekend either because through it all the one I've been dating realized how much me dating another bothered him and he realized it was because he really had a lot of feelings for me even though he also has a guard on his heart and let me know that. It's amazing how certain situations that transpire can make you realize how you really feel and decide to relay that to the other. Life lessons are a doozy and love lessons are even harder to figure out.