Husband Credentials.....if you ain’t got em dating shouldn’t be an option for या.

Category: Romance and Relationships

Like my profile says I don't believe in using the internet as a dating service but if that is the way destiny has it then live and let live. This may come off as a cocky blog but to me it's more of a guide to some of the so called "MEN" and also the findings of my observations from the internet and the opposite sex. First off let me say that guys do come at me a lot for "dating" reasons and maybe "other" reasons, if you will, and so I've made it a point to try to start asking the BASICS to see if these "men" comin' at my grown self have "HUSBAND CREDENTIALS." Again I'll say I'm not using the internet for dating purposes so these questions are out of pure curiousity. I'll just say if you ain't got the following when you come at me you ain't comin' at me correctly in my opinion:
1. A job (that you have kept for longer then a month and/or intend on keepin' for a stable amount of time)
2. Transportation, a/k/a your own car, bike, SOMETHIN'
3. Goals
4. Bank Account that isn't always in the negative (so I know yo butt can at least partially manage your own EARNED moolah)
5. Your own place whether you rentin' or ownin'.....some place you can call YOUR home
6. Cell phone or home phone
7. Existence of a long term relationship in your life time after high school and the capability to handle commitment
8. The want to be a husband before the age of 40
Ya'll might read the above and think to yourselves.......those sound like some pretty common things around people my age (25) and older.......however through the course of time I've been single on the internet, those simple things are NOT always either on somebody's plate or even on their daggon agenda for life. I am NOT a completely materialistic woman BUT you've got to at least match me in my accomplishments or investments so I know you can take care of me when and if we ever engage in marriage. In my observations ya'll so called "MEN" have a LOT to work on if you gonna come at somebody on my level. Get your husband credentials together and keep in mind I just listed above some of the BASICS.