Category: Romance and Relationships
If you are in a relationship with someone and deep down you really like or LOVE this man or woman then things like "you're beautiful", "you're handsome", "I really want you to come see me" should be a SMALL portion of the things you should tell he or she on a REGULAR basis. And if you don't consistently tell your love the above then you sure the hell shouldn't be sayin' to NOBODY else. To sit there and tell another one of your female or male friends that he or she is beautiful more than once a day when you ain't even said it to your loved one yet is completely unacceptable! For you to have the audasity to do it in the first place shows the lack of respect that you have for the love of your life. Your girlfriend or boyfriend should be your ONLY beautiful. Where is your mind at when you say these things to other females or males?! I can tell you one thing it ain't with the love of your life that's for damn sure. SHAME ON YOU that think sayin' inappropriate things to the opposite sex is okay, shame on you for disrespectin' the love of your life, shame on you for the pain you are causing your significant other knowing it hurts their hearts and minds. SHAME ON YOU! YOU DON'T DESERVE the one that thinks of you with every step they take and every word they speak and all the love they pull out of their heart and soul to give you everyday of their life.
Monday, October 23, 2006
Monday, October 16, 2006
Don't compare me!!!
Category: Friends
I had a really good friend come to me this weekend during a drunkin' session of conversation (you know the real truth) about more than one person comparing her to me and insinuating that she need be more like me. Because of this she said she was kinda holding a grudge against me because of it. I don't think it was fair for her to hold a grudge against me for something I did not say and sure the hell did not encourage anyone else to say but that is how she felt. As flattering as it is that someone may have me on a high place of people they think about, I am NOT by any means perfect and I sure don't think you should compare anyone to me because as this friend made a point she said "why can't I just be me why do I have to be compared to you?" Her point was VERY valid. She is her own person and I am my own person and I hope everyone can realize that EVERYBODY is different and it is for a reason. The point of this blog is if you are reading it and you are comparing someone to me......DON'T. I don't want anyone to be like me, I want them to be like them and them ONLY. So for the sake of someone else's feelings and friendships leave my name out of your comparisons.
I had a really good friend come to me this weekend during a drunkin' session of conversation (you know the real truth) about more than one person comparing her to me and insinuating that she need be more like me. Because of this she said she was kinda holding a grudge against me because of it. I don't think it was fair for her to hold a grudge against me for something I did not say and sure the hell did not encourage anyone else to say but that is how she felt. As flattering as it is that someone may have me on a high place of people they think about, I am NOT by any means perfect and I sure don't think you should compare anyone to me because as this friend made a point she said "why can't I just be me why do I have to be compared to you?" Her point was VERY valid. She is her own person and I am my own person and I hope everyone can realize that EVERYBODY is different and it is for a reason. The point of this blog is if you are reading it and you are comparing someone to me......DON'T. I don't want anyone to be like me, I want them to be like them and them ONLY. So for the sake of someone else's feelings and friendships leave my name out of your comparisons.
Tuesday, October 10, 2006
Quality Time
Category: Romance and Relationships
Okay so you get into a relationship or marriage and you wanna what..........SPEND QUALITY TIME with your significant other right? Yes this is typical of a loving relationship or marriage in my opinion. Asking to have one on one time with your man or woman is not something that should be a "burden" to the other. It should be cherished and loved. And for those of you out there that think bein' in the same place, room, or vicinity with your man or woman is spending "quality time" with them. You may want to ask em what they think about that because I GUARANTEE that you will find they probably have a different outlook on that. I am a pretty social woman and so is my man and often times when we're spending time together its in mixed company. And just because we are "hangin' out" with those people at the same time doesn't mean that we are spending the adequate ALONE a/k/a ONE on ONE time with each other. Me and my man aren't the most affectionate people out in public because quite frankly we don't have to be all up on each other for other people to know we are together or to show we love one another. So when we are in an appropriate place to show that affection I cherish and love it. The point you ask.......make sure you take and cherish the time with your other half because like some could vouche for they may not be around forever and you don't want to be bitter because you didn't get to spend a sufficient amount of time loving on your man or woman and God forbid that be the reason why your significant other grows apart from you because you were to SELFISH to give a little Quality Time to he or she.
Okay so you get into a relationship or marriage and you wanna what..........SPEND QUALITY TIME with your significant other right? Yes this is typical of a loving relationship or marriage in my opinion. Asking to have one on one time with your man or woman is not something that should be a "burden" to the other. It should be cherished and loved. And for those of you out there that think bein' in the same place, room, or vicinity with your man or woman is spending "quality time" with them. You may want to ask em what they think about that because I GUARANTEE that you will find they probably have a different outlook on that. I am a pretty social woman and so is my man and often times when we're spending time together its in mixed company. And just because we are "hangin' out" with those people at the same time doesn't mean that we are spending the adequate ALONE a/k/a ONE on ONE time with each other. Me and my man aren't the most affectionate people out in public because quite frankly we don't have to be all up on each other for other people to know we are together or to show we love one another. So when we are in an appropriate place to show that affection I cherish and love it. The point you ask.......make sure you take and cherish the time with your other half because like some could vouche for they may not be around forever and you don't want to be bitter because you didn't get to spend a sufficient amount of time loving on your man or woman and God forbid that be the reason why your significant other grows apart from you because you were to SELFISH to give a little Quality Time to he or she.
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