Don't compare me!!!

Category: Friends

I had a really good friend come to me this weekend during a drunkin' session of conversation (you know the real truth) about more than one person comparing her to me and insinuating that she need be more like me. Because of this she said she was kinda holding a grudge against me because of it. I don't think it was fair for her to hold a grudge against me for something I did not say and sure the hell did not encourage anyone else to say but that is how she felt. As flattering as it is that someone may have me on a high place of people they think about, I am NOT by any means perfect and I sure don't think you should compare anyone to me because as this friend made a point she said "why can't I just be me why do I have to be compared to you?" Her point was VERY valid. She is her own person and I am my own person and I hope everyone can realize that EVERYBODY is different and it is for a reason. The point of this blog is if you are reading it and you are comparing someone to me......DON'T. I don't want anyone to be like me, I want them to be like them and them ONLY. So for the sake of someone else's feelings and friendships leave my name out of your comparisons.